👑 BOSS MODE
GIRL, BYE.
Some things have overstayed their welcome.
The job where every Sunday night feels like the Sunday Scaries Super Bowl.
The situationship you’ve been “seeing where it goes” since the Obama administration.
The Pilates studio that just raised its prices again. At this point, you should own part of the building.
Maybe it’s time.
But before we start dramatically gathering our belongings...
Time for your exit interview.
🤖 PUT AI TO WORK
THE EXIT INTERVIEW
Okay. Before you blow up your life, do the courageous thing…
Let’s make sure you actually want to.
Have AI give you an exit interview. Yes, really.
No badge to turn in. No awkward HR lady. Just a moment to answer questions you may never have thought to ask yourself.
✨ STEAL THIS PROMPT
I’m thinking about quitting [situation]. Give me an exit interview I can't BS my way through. Ask me five questions, one at a time, to help me figure out if I'm really done or just having a moment.
YOUR AI EXIT INTERVIEW:
1. If nothing changed, how would you feel being here a year from now?
2. What would have to change for you to genuinely want to stay?
3. lf you had a really great week, would you still want to leave?
4. Are you trying to make it work, or convincing yourself to stay?
5. If no one would be disappointed in you, what would you do?
Well.
That escalated nicely.
🗣️FIND YOUR VOICE
I HAVE TO TELL THEM?
So. You've decided to leave. Now you have to tell people.
Pure hell.
So, start by giving AI the messy version. The rambling version. The version you'd text your best friend after two glasses of wine.
✨ STEAL THIS PROMPT
I need to tell [person] that I'm leaving [situation]. Turn my emotional word salad into a few ways to say it clearly and confidently: [brain dump].
FOR EXAMPLE:
EMOTIONAL WORD SALAD:
“I really like my boss and everyone's been so nice and they're already understaffed and I KNOW they're going to panic and then I'll feel terrible and what if they think I'm ungrateful or selfish or both and what if I run into them at Trader Joe's six months from now and it's weird and I don't want to burn bridges because everyone says never burn bridges and I don't want anyone mad at me and I know I can't stay forever but maybe I should just wait until things calm down except WHEN IS THAT EVER GOING TO HAPPEN.”
AI MIGHT GIVE YOU:
“I know my leaving puts you in a difficult position, and that's honestly the hardest part for me. But I can't make this decision based on how difficult it will be for everyone else.”
Take a line. Take three words. Toss the rest.
Your voice. Your call.
🎙️ VOICE NOTES
INSPIRED BY PEGGY OLSON
You've been patient. You've been professional.
You've made yourself indispensable.
And somehow, you're still waiting for recognition.
Well, here's a thought. Stop waiting.
Take your talent. Take your ambition.
Take everything they took for granted.
And if anyone asks where you're going?
Tell them somewhere they don't need convincing.
Now, for God's sake, stop apologizing and get out of there.
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👉 You know it. She knows it. Hit Forward.
✨ Behind Her Voice ✨
I’ve quit jobs. Relationships. Cities. Overcommitting. Diet Coke. (Mostly.)
None of it was easy.
The hardest part wasn't actually leaving. It was finding the clarity and the confidence to say it out loud.
That's where Her Voice AI comes in. Not to make the decision for you, but to help you get clear on what you want and find the words to say it.
Some of my greatest beginnings started with goodbye.
So, if you know it’s time? Quit.
— Ellen, Your Hype Girl-in-Chief 👑