👑 BOSS MODE
Girl, Spiraling.

You sent a Slack (or email, or spoke up in a meeting) that didn’t land the way you hoped. Now you’re metaphorically dying inside.

AI can rewrite your story into words that restore your worth.

STEAL THIS PROMPT:
I’m going to describe a work moment that made me feel [i.e. embarrassed, stupid, etc.]. Rewrite the story I’m telling myself into something fair, calm and more accurate. Don’t be overly positive. Don’t dismiss the discomfort.

PROOF OF PROMPT:

What You Might Say
I stumbled over my words in a meeting, lost my train of thought. Someone else jumped in. I feel like I looked unprepared and incompetent, and now I think I damaged my credibility.

The AI Reframe
You briefly lost your train of thought during a live discussion. That happens in real-time meetings. Someone else stepping in is normal meeting flow, not a character judgment.

Subjective vs Objective.

✏️ SPEAK UP
Find Confidence in Chaos

When you mess up, say the wrong thing, or need to reset, AI can help you with what to say next.

STEAL THIS PROMPT:
Help me respond to this situation calmly and confidently. I want to acknowledge it, take responsibility if needed, and move forward without over-explaining or self-blame. Give me 2–3 short options.

PROOF OF PROMPT:

What confident ownership sounds like in real life:

“That wasn’t my best moment. Thanks for giving me grace.”

“I hear you. I’ll be more mindful next time.”

“I didn’t mean it that way, but I appreciate you telling me.”

No spiraling. No backstory. Just ownership.

🛠️ TOOL & TELL: ChatGPT

When you’re spiraling, you don’t need an ear. You need better words that reframe your self-authored story.

AI works here because it doesn’t have an ego; it’s not emotionally invested in punishing you. It gives you clarity, which is really all we truly need.

ChatGPT gives you words that:

🫶 Lower the volume on panic

🛑 Interrupt self-blame

🧭 Help you respond, not retreat

TRY THIS TODAY
When your thoughts start looping:

🗣️ Tell ChatGPT what happened
💬 Ask for a calmer, fairer rewrite
👀 Read it slowly, objectively

Steady words. Steady mind.

✏️ RECEIPTS
She said it

I spiraled this week. It was not pretty. You know, the kind of spiral where your friend might start texting you supportive quotes she saw on Pinterest.

Instead of trying to “positive-think” my way out, I used AI to rewrite the story factually. No fluff.

It helped me see the situation so clearly. Without bias. It gave me the cause, the effect, and the lesson learned.

It was a framework that helped my nervous system to reboot.

It also became the inspo behind this issue.

Tried something from Her Voice AI? Hit reply. I read every note. 💌

🎠 PROMPT PLAYGROUND:
Laugh at It

If your inner critic is shouting louder than the Netflix ‘tudum’, it’s time to lighten up your inner dialogue.

Levity can help you levitate out of your shame spiral.

STEAL THIS PROMPT:
Take this awkward moment and rewrite it in the voice of David Rose from Schitt’s Creek. Make me laugh so I don’t cry.

PROOF OF PROMPT:

Your Awkward Moment, retold by David Rose

Okay, yes. Was it…deeply uncomfortable? Obviously. Did your soul briefly exit your body and hover above the situation like ‘I don’t live here anymore’? Sure. But also—I cannot stress enough—that everyone else was far too consumed by their own chaotic inner critic to catalog your moment the way you are. It was a blip. A very loud blip. But still…a blip.

Listen to levity.

🎙️ VOICE NOTES
Inspired by AI & Kris Kardashian

Okay. Pause for a second. One awkward moment does not undo your talent, your intelligence, or your credibility.

We don’t spiral. We let our assistant, AI, deal with it.

And just remember, you’re doing amazing, sweetie.

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👉 Forward this issue to that friend who is currently spiraling. Dig her out.

Behind the Voice
I created Her Voice AI to help women find and use their voice when it matters most. But sometimes, the loudest voice we’re dealing with is our own. And it’s not always kind. This issue is for that voice. Try the prompts. I did. 10 out of 10.

— Ellen, your AI Hype Girl in Chief

*Voice Notes are AI-generated and inspired by public personas. They are not affiliated with or endorsed by the individuals named.

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