👑 BOSS MODE
Girl, Disagree
You got feedback. You don’t agree.
Now you’re typing…deleting…typing…
Meanwhile your actual point is in the witness protection program.
STEAL THIS PROMPT:
Help me craft an email response to [insert feedback] without folding.
PROOF OF PROMPT:
❌ Before:
Totally hear you on this and I can definitely make those changes! I was just thinking maybe we could also consider…
✅ After:
Appreciate the feedback. I see the point on X. I’d still recommend we keep Y, since it supports [goal]. Happy to discuss.
Let confidence hit send.
✏️ SPEAK UP
Confidence loves clarity
“Was that period… aggressive?”
“Why did he say ‘haha’ twice?”
Self-doubt loves a mixed signal. Confidence? She just asks.
STEAL THIS PROMPT:
Okay I’m overanalyzing this. Help me just ask what’s going on without making it a whole thing.
PROOF OF PROMPT:
❌ Before: Ok, cool
✅ After: Ok, cool. But wanna make sure we’re on the same page. What did you mean?
Stop playing detective.
🛠️ TOOL & TELL
ChatGPT isn’t in the business of changing your voice.
But it will give you the words to change how you show up.
Let out the self-doubt. Then let AI transform it into confidence.
Try these prompts:
“How do I sound less unsure?”
“Why should I not second-guess this?”
“Help me not overthink this situation. ”
“Turn this into calm confidence.”
Words are power.
🌀 ANX-AI-ETY
Is AI changing how we speak?
Yes and no.
You still know what you want to say.
AI just gets you there faster.
Human first.
🎠 PROMPT PLAYGROUND
Confidence has entered the chat
What if you could see the actual convo between your self-doubt and confidence?
STEAL THIS PROMPT:
Create a chat between self-doubt and confidence. Show me what they’d say about [subject] that I’m overthinking.
💬 The Chat:
Self-Doubt:
hey… are we sure we should post that? feels a little… much.
Confidence:
Define “much.” I call it clear.
Self-Doubt:
yeah but what if no one likes it
Confidence:
Then we survived.
Self-Doubt:
…fine. post it
Confidence:
Already did.
Leave doubt on read.
🎙️ VOICE NOTES
Inspired by Mindy Chen
Confidence is like the outfit you almost didn’t wear.
You think it’s too much, then you put it on and suddenly… it’s perfect.
Your words are the same. Stop editing them.
Try them on. They’re way cuter than you think.
Gif by netflix on Giphy
👉 Forward this newsletter. They’ll love it.
✨Behind the Voice
This issue was born from a funny thought I had: What if your self-doubt went on Spring Break? What if confidence had to cover for you? Laptop immediately opened and I got to writing. So for all my girlies who might be second-guessing themselves on something, put your self-doubt on Spring Break this week or just a weekend. Hit reply and tell me what happened.
—Ellen, you AI hype girl in chief
*Voice Notes are AI-generated and inspired by public personas. They are not affiliated with or endorsed by the individuals named.